Not only did the Benjamites commit the terrible crime described in chapter 19, but when called to account by the other tribes of Israel they refused to admit their guilt, instead rising up in hostility against their brothers. Defensiveness is the greatest obstacle to restoration. God is always willing to forgive us and restore us, but when we refuse to own up to what we have done we also reject his gracious hand of restoration. It often happens that our first reaction when we are confronted with some wrongdoing is to defend ourselves. We react with hostility and anger and are quick to throw blame elsewhere or point out the faults of the one who is confronting us. It is a terrible mistake that serves only to harden our hearts to the Holy Spirit whose work of restoration begins in us with bringing our wrongs to light. If we resist being shown our faults, we are resistant to the ministry of the Holy Spirit and we reject God’s hand of salvation. Next time someone confronts you with your faults, do not react defensively. Rather, be quick to recognise where you have gone wrong, despite the wrongs that others may have done to you. When you do this, you open your heart to God. This is true humility and by this attitude you will be saved from your sins.
Have you reacted defensively to someone recently who has confronted you with your wrongs? Admit your wrongs to them and to God.
Read Judges 20
