How do we position ourselves in relation to others? This is a very important question that we must consider in every situation, whether work, social, or serving in church ministry. Unless we are conscious of what position we are taking we will default to some subconscious impulse. Most often the impulse that drives us is the impulse to project something to people that will make them notice us and be impressed in some way. Some people have this impulse, but being unable to impress people, then retreat in despair and self-loathing. Those who succeed in impressing others are in no better a state because they only become more dependent on, and subsequently enslaved to, the opinions of others. The only opinion that really matters is God’s opinion. So we really need to develop a constant consciousness of God’s presence in our lives and a conscience that is sensitive to his desires for us. This is gained by seeking God’s presence and soaking in God’s love. The more we connect ourselves with God’s favour and love, the more we will be liberated from the need to rise up and be noticed. All Christian ministry requires lowering oneself in some way. For an ego in constant need of inflation this will be impossible. But when your self-esteem is connected with God, you will be free to take the ‘low seat’; you will be free to associate with people who cannot repay you with a sense of importance by your association with them. Are you able to take the humble position in relation to others without injury to your sense of worth?
Reflect on the position that you have been taking in relation to others.
Read Luke 14:1-14
